Have you ever wondered what your life looks like through someone else’s eyes? Honestly, it is probably something you never think on. But if you do think on it and play the scenario over and over in your head, it is interesting. Your idea of how they see you either underscores your life or drastically over evaluates its.
Friends or associates who know you and your family often give subtle hints on how they view you. You must listen closely; in some fashion they probably have some farfetched idea about pieces of your life. Here is the thing, you have probably done it too. This conversation is not to point fingers. However the mere curiosity of how your life appears to an outsider might be interesting. You may find their notions or ideas about you laughable, inflated, or on point.
Importantly, even your best friends may misjudge your lifestyle. At some you may get and opportunity to approach that point that unreal perception and that will be your time to launch you.
Here is a look at three areas of your life that friends or colleagues may have preconceive notions.
You Walk Around Like You’re Better Than Others
This can be an all-time favorite. It so absurd because the judgement is mostly driven by lack of real knowledge or relationship with the person. If someone looks at you in this fashion, it probably out of jealousy or bad information. There could be other reasons, so do not be surprise. People tend to invent their own realty. People who are not friends or acquaintances certainly will mistake who you are. When it is time to apologize, if the person is real, you will hear, we miss read you. We thought that you thought that you were better than other people. This is because people do not take the time to know you. The real you!
Truth be told, people will look at you and they will draw this conclusion. Notably, it may be based on how you look, how you act, or your family ties in the community. Normally, there is just a simple misrepresentation of what folk hear in passing, and no genuinely getting to know you, yet.
Importantly, they will latch on to their belief about you until it’ s corrected in direct communication manner or them getting to personally know you. Do not be shocked to find out that this is how some may have viewed you, yes you that is reading this blog. Actually, the view of you before coming in and sitting down in your world, and having a personalized conversation with you or hanging out with you.
You Work Too Much For Someone Without Major Responsibilities
Honestly, if you get the chance to really ream out folk about this pre-judgy assumption, you chew them out good. Make sure there posture spiral to a downward slump to the ground. Follow-up with a witty version of yourself. This maybe the most inapt notion about a person who does not have kids or not married. Folk with this notion about someone is often measuring your responsibilities to theirs. There is always a portion of a persons life you cannot see. Give a person no quarter on this one. You deserve to verbally harness the power of the wind, and throw at them.
You’re The Product Of A Posh Family
Rather you are or you are not this notion, like the others, leads to not giving a person a fair shot at individualism. This may not be the case at all. You may simply be the product of a great family with modest means.
In the end, you are more than what someone thinks about you. Truth be told, you may be nothing like what folk think. If people have interest in you and are curious they will get to know you. On the whole, you will either prove them right, wrong, or almost close.