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The Fondness For Forever True Love

“Once upon a time there was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.” -Nicole Krauss,” The History of Love

When we talk about true love, then we should talk about the endless minutes, hours, days, and years that go into such complex energy. We ought to talk about the abilities and feelings we conjure to take the first step into love. At times, it is hard to believe the measures we have taken in the name of love. Despite the fears, fears of rejection – even of success, we leap forward into the odd beauty of the chasm. But also, we move onward into the breach to hold on to love and let love and all its magic enfold us too. Fondness, relationship, and time, bundled together, are supposed to mean something. And that something may be greater now or in the future if we are lucky enough to reap the benefits of affection.

We chase love and desire love to chase us – the oddities and parallels that only another can satisfy. The answer we hunt for leads to determining if another’s love is worth sharing our lifetime. If we say yes, then we move in pursuit of understanding and accepting the other’s snickers, sneezes, and sneers – valuable to the two in the courtship, but not to the many. Love and baffling attractions move in unison. Watching the romantic rhythms of our universe is like gazing at the tides of life, which blend in perfect harmony – or makes room to flow side by side.

Where Affection Converges Two People

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“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” -Emily Bronte, Wuthering Heights

The road to love may take you through woven paths of trial – an even greater love, well that is another story. Often, it is the small features and kindnesses that draw us to our suitor. And the small fires kindling inside of us with each passing vibrant conversation or sharing familiar stories is what joins us on our journey to love. Some of the best classic literature books, such as A Tale Of Two Cities, tell the stories of these types of courtships that pave the path to true love.

When our heart and soul intertwine, we can feel each other’s emotion. Also, we sense the endless happenings of each other’s world. The animated tides of one person’s life shape the other. The energies between the two people become close to identical yet maintain a slight distinctiveness, conveying “I’m still me too, just ameliorate”. This is the spark that ignites devotion toward true love.

True Love Knows Nothing Of Perfect Timing

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“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.” -Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever

         We never know the exact time when warm affection pulls us into its clutch. It is like the smell of time slowing down in a lavender field of flows. It is the taste of the smell of fresh snow in the Alps, flowing down the back of your throat – fresh, welcoming, and necessary. In reality, endearment offers no defining moment. We look up and somewhere between the blinking of our eyes and taking a deep breath, love happens. It courses through out veins like angelic fire.

We know not when the season of endearment will enshroud us – even more when that season will be eternal.

Devotion Is Many Things – But Not Hurt

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“Love: the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”-Mark Twain

         Devotion is many things. It is the desire to have the sunrise in the east, after endless days of grim darkness. Adoration for passion gives way to the thirst for devotion and affection. We feel seduction rising where the affair of love surges in our life. Also, we court the irresistible desire known as love. Significantly, the overwhelming feeling burns and feels like fire, the kind we want to nurture.

A devoted passion will never hurt you. A timeless love will outlast the tomb shut on that love, after this mortal life is loss.

I Don’t Care What Anyone Tells You, Being In True Love Will Teach You How To Love

We’ve all been in love at some point in our lives. If we are lucky enough, we will be in love multiple times. Some of us need to experience being in love because it provides joy, excitement, and a connection different from all other types of love . There is nothing like the love of a mate, someone you’ve invested your time and energy.

When the love is right and with the right person, meaning you can compromise with the person, be friends, forgive without being made a fool, and share your world, then love is relaxing and a lot less stressful. You can enjoy the ride the relationship has to offer. You can focus on building your present and future with the person. You are able to find the fun and joy in being in love. The love will teach you how to be a better lover or loving person.

True Love Will Always Win, Even When There Is Loss

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In a time, where there’s an increasing amount of imitation or dupe relationships, feelings, affections and ties, the real or true maybe hard to spot. The signs are present for true too. It may not be easy to recognize, because we tend to focus on cheating signs. True love empowers. True love supports and creates a safe environment or space, so we may grow and communicate without the threat of feeling small. Love encourages and is a truth advocate. When everything else dies out or withers away, this type of love will win, in the end . True love will survive.

You Have To Advocate For The Love You Want And Need

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According to Merriam-Webster, Advocate means “one who supports or promotes the interests of a cause or group”. It also means “one who defends or maintains a cause or proposal”. You must radiate true love and depending on the type of relationship expect and give it. If the other person in the relationship cannot deliver it, chances are each one of you had a different expectation on love. Over time, real love is develops organically. How you love your friends may not be the same as how you love your mate. Whatever version, they both should be real and you must be an advocate for love.

A Good Love Will Assist In Balancing You

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It would interesting to know, if their is a person existing whose never experienced loving another person. In fact, it would be scary. Love has a way of balancing you out. It’s the give and take wheel that molds you, and the need to console and be consoled type behavior. You have to allow love to balance you, if you don’t, you will not union properly with the person you love. A good love, a true love, will balance you, if you let it! It will teach you and you can teach it.

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I hope everyone was shown some love today. If not, consider this short entry me showing each of you love.

Who Do You Love

You have the right to experience love across cultures without the pejorative opinions of those who understand less. If you have ever watched Underworld: Rise of the Lycans, nothing is more sturdy and unwavering than Viktor’s belief about his species or kind. The idea of his daughter, Sonja being in love with the werewolf, Lucian, is not only repulsive to Viktor but, a disgrace to the bloodline in the most pejorative sense.

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And, if you were the type of vampire that Viktor and his clan is, you would probably feel the same as him. A creature that is eternal, demonically divine and mostly unstoppable. As a human, you have a heart and souls, which means you evolve differently and feel more deeply about love. You understand that love shows up and shows out in your life without fair warning. It comes from the most unlikely places from those you least expect. The evolution of love is important. Lao Tzu once wrote, “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” 

A love that evolves naturally and is afforded the proper nourishment will flourish.  You have to show up in the love situation. In some culture loving outside of your class status and even your culture is unacceptable. You may or may not understand this, but you should at least respect it. You might try to love those that are good for you and right for you…this includes being compatible. Sometimes it sneaks in from places far removed from what you had planned. And, you decide to pursue because of the feeling in down deep in the pit of your stomach.


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It may not always please friends and family, but learning to experience love and going for everything you can get from it, is all human. If you may have experienced horrible love, you know the one sided love affair,  where you have deeply loved someone and you questioned if they love you back. The person didn’t offer up behavior over time that made you believe they loved you back. Loving the wrong person results in a lesson in love or making better choices on who to love or simply getting out there.

Some years back, Mary J Blige sung a song call Real Love. Where do you find this kind of love? There is not a complete and definitive answer to that question. Maybe all love is real love and some of it maybe a little misguide, premature and needs more time to bake.  Naw, some if it is infatuation…faux love.  When love is love, you will know and there will be no mistaken it. Hopefully, as you become wiser, the topic of love becomes more sensible.

Don’t let pressure and bad experiences with prior love, keep you from what is to come. Remember to love. If life teaches any lesson regarding love it is, you don’t know who we will end up loving outside of your normal unconditional love relationships or connections. If you must love, then love. It is unpredictable, sweet, painful, fun, adventurous, emotional, and above all love can be epic.

Love Quotes To Digest


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“I know for sure that loves saves me and that it is here to save us all.” by Maya Angelou

The most important thing in the world is family and love.” by  John Wooden

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” by Lao Tzu

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” by Dr. Seuss

“We loved with a love that was more than love.” by Edgar Allen Poe